Hi gg,

The tragedy of an Indian woman lies here.....profound powerlessness to control any aspect of her life......

This superficial contentedness about a restful living with a feeling of bitterness and resignation smouldering beneath will take her nowhere...she can never hope to escape from this torment... ...her living will always remain  humid....and never warm.

Liked reading it :)

Shuvashree,

Sorry for the delay in replying. I was out of station and returned back to Mumbai last night. 
You may be right in your reasoning. But you cant really draw a firm line of how to deal in any given circumstances isnt it?
Sometimes it may backfire and is difficult to do the patchwork.
I guess in any relationship one has to excerise utmost caution just to ensure the feelings are not wounded.
Thanks for the lovely advice...
I have deleted at your request the other comment.

gg

Promilla,

That was so beautifully said. Thanks for visiting and sorry for the delay in acknowledging.

gg

Hi Great Girl

Very interesting post indeed. But dear, woman will always be woman. So unpredicted, so loving, only giving, not demanding.

I can understand that she would continue to love him because when woman loves she loves wid all her heart, all her integrity, all her faith, with all her tust, all her life. It is not that man has stopped loving her. It is just that man will be man always.

Hats off to the woman who can love despite all odds.

Promilla

Hi Great Girl,

I have a slighly different take on this.    Firstly I don't think the guy hates her, Unconditional love that takes everything lying down can be clingy and slowly grow distasteful. I think by asking her to exceed and excel him what he he looking out for is a go getter, a self confident, self respecting women. I feel the guy truly loves her but is impatient about her acting like a doormat. She  needs to pull her self together, respect herself, be independent and he will come back right where he belongs.  I for one cannot accept a guy always taking my tantrums, temper, everything lying down and am sure  neither can this guy.  Even if it does not come naturally she needs to put him in place a few times, tell him off and see what happens guys bore of clingy women.
Hey all this is not just theory, learnt things the very hard way 
Shuvashree 
PS-Sorry the previous comment from BG's ID is mine. I did not realize he was logged on. Would request you to delete the same as he has nothing to do with it.   

reflector,

Thanks for your appreciation. If you buckle unable to confront hatred, it is a disgrace to love.

Love is all pervasive. The best way to injure the bad is to be good to them they say.......
I have the ability to love indefinitely. But he cant hate indefinitely...So i am waiting for the turn around.....


gg

All I can say is that there is so much reality in it...it stings...but then truth hurts...written so well that the impact is felt very lucidly..and ironically...she continues to love...

reflector

Meera,

I think you have hit the nail on its head...You are absolutely right ...Its mad mad mad love.. So I really dont experience the pain...Would rather ask what is the pain? How can hate be painful? Sounds silly yea
Love and hate are not two different aspects...He says it too often..
When love stands upside down its hate ...
When hate stands upside down its Love...

I really dont know if I am really standing normal or upside down...
Thank you so much for analysing ....It was a pleasure to have you here...

gg

Sneha,

I guess we are in the same boat!!!!...
But there is one difference...Vulture is a patient bird....It will wait till the kill is ready... I guess I will wait too for the trasnformation. There is also a pleasure in the pain. Have you experienced it?

Thanks for your nice warm remarks...

gg

Dsampath,

It is just that the girl is not able to hate. Even if she hates it is only for a short period of time and it cant be stretched...
I guess the girl after some time will Love the Hate...and wait for the Hate to Love her..

Thanks for visiting..

gg